Thursday, November 25, 2010
Wondering if we give thanks the right way
Peruse the internet for even seven seconds today and you'll see list upon list of things people are thankful for. I think you're likely aware of this.
What strikes me with these lists (and in my own) is how thankfulness tends to be expressed as a dichotomy (big word) towards another fate.
You're thankful for family because not everyone has one
You're thankful for food because not everyone can eat today
You're thankful for warm clothing because there are people freezing outside
And so on.
What strikes me is in all these scenarios, we're not truly thankful until that thing is taken away from us. I mean, we can go through the motions of being thankful. It usually feels to me like 10% truth and 90% lip service. I find this problematic.
Let's extend this problem a little further:
Do we do the same thing with receiving God's grace? Where we only truly feel it when we've screwed something up?
I'm guessing the answer is 'yes' for most people. That seems messed up. God's grace is not reserved for people with extreme testimonies. As someone whose testimony tends toward the extreme side, I wish I'd been walking on the path since day one.
There's got to be a more accurate way of feeling thankful. There's got to be a better way of feeling God's grace.
My guess is we'd rather worship extreme situations and function in opposition to them. It's a much better story that way, right?